Ilene Stallman is an attorney licensed in CA, NY and NJ. She has been practicing law since 1991 with a concentration in Family Law. She received special training and certification in Divorce Mediation through the Forrest Mosten Mediation and Collaborative Training program.


I am a strong advocate of the collaborative mediation process. Through my experience as a litigator, I understand the emotional and financial consequences of divorce and custody issues. My role is to provide our clients with the resources to understand their issues, the law and offer guidance towards a resolution. A collaborative mediation approach affords our clients an informative opportunity to educate themselves and tailor-make a resolution that fits their needs in the most peaceful and confidential manner. As a neutral mediator, I act with confidence and patience as I guide our clients through the process. I believe that mediating collaboratively with an attorney, financial specialist and family counselor facilitates a parties’ negotiations with more control, efficiency and expediency.

Bar Admission:

California, New York, New Jersey

Education & Training:

New York University, Bachelor of Arts, 1984-1988
New York Law School, Juris Doctor, 1988-1991
Forrest Mosten Mediator and Collaborative Family Mediation Training, 2011

Private Practice Family Law and General Litigation,  NY and CA since 1991