Divorce: Should You Keep the House or Divide All Assets

By Stephanie | April 9, 2024
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When you are experiencing the bumpy journey of divorce, there are a lot of questions and concerns, and more often than not, they are overwhelming. And there’s no right or…

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Should You Refinance Your Home After Divorce?

By Stephanie | March 12, 2024
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When discussing the family home while divorcing, it is important to be transparent and open to discussion. One of you may want to stay in your home, while the other…

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What Do You Tell Your Kids About Your Divorce?

By Stephanie | February 6, 2024
Mother talking to daughter

When we speak with parents who are divorcing and have children, we often help them draft a conversation to share with their children to meet their needs and age level.…

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What is the difference between separation and divorce?

By Stephanie | January 12, 2024
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There are several ways to proceed once you and your spouse decide to move forward with a marital dissolution. Often we meet with clients to help them understand the difference…

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How is Child Support Calculated?

By Stephanie | January 9, 2024
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Understanding how child support is calculated can help divorcing couples make informed decisions, fostering a smoother process. In an amicable divorce or mediation, transparency and cooperation are key. This allows…

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Tips for Moving on After Divorce

By Stephanie | December 13, 2023
Two women talking over coffee.

While divorce may seem like an ending, it can be a gateway to a new beginning. It might be hard for you to know where to start. If you’re looking…

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How Can a Financial Specialist Help in Your Divorce?

By Stephanie | October 10, 2023
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Managing your financial situation becomes a central concern when you opt for collaborative divorce or mediation to achieve an amicable marital separation. In this article, we will explore the instrumental…

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Dealing with Divorce as a Single Parent

By Stephanie | August 9, 2023
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Divorce isn’t easy, especially when kids are involved. As a collaborative divorce mediator, I understand the challenges you face. Here’s practical advice for dealing with divorce as a single parent…

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Coping with Emotional Stress During Divorce

By Stephanie | July 12, 2023

It’s essential to prioritize self-care and find healthy ways to cope with the stress that comes with divorce. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, here are some practical strategies that can help…

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Should You Use Social Media When Going Through a Divorce?

By Stephanie | May 10, 2023

As digital devices and social media have become a significant part of life, smartphones and social media platforms are also integral part of our everyday lives. People frequently want to…

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The Importance of Therapy During Divorce

By Stephanie | April 12, 2023
Couple in divorce therapy

When a marriage breaks down, it can be challenging for couples to understand why and when the communication lines broke down. It’s essential to find a way to reopen those…

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Money Mistakes to Avoid When You Divorce

By Stephanie | March 9, 2023
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When couples are divorcing through a litigated court divorce, there is most often chaos and a lot of uncertainty – emotions can run high and hot. But when you and…

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Takeaways From a Pandemic Divorce

By Stephanie | February 8, 2023
Face mask with rings laying on it.

The COVID-19 pandemic has brought numerous changes and challenges to our daily lives, and the divorce process is no exception. When you utilize the collaborative divorce model, you have access…

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Creating New Holiday Traditions for Your Family After Divorce

By Stephanie | December 14, 2022
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Facebook and Instagram would have everyone believing that everyone’s holidays are jolly, bright and perfect! And that can be so very far from the reality of what the holiday season…

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How to Survive the Holiday’s During Divorce

By Stephanie | November 2, 2022
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The holidays are a time for family and friends, not for turmoil, but when divorce is part of the equation, it can feel like peace will never be found. Social…

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Reasons Why Baby Boomers May Choose Collaborative Divorce

By Stephanie | October 13, 2022
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Baby Boomers were born between 1946-1964 and after World War II ended. They came after the Silent Generation and before Generation X. The Pew Research Center recorded that couples divorcing…

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Understanding Spousal Support in California

By Stephanie | September 14, 2022
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One of the questions that often arise during the divorce process is how spousal support will be handled and how it will affect the post-divorce financial landscape. When a couple…

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Importance of Child Therapy During Divorce

By Stephanie | July 13, 2022
Little girl sitting talking with therapist.

Children are not always open books; it is quite hard to read their emotions sometimes, and they don’t come with an instruction book. And when your family is in the…

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How to reduce the negative effects of divorce on your children

By Stephanie | May 11, 2022
Little girl blowing bubbles

The collateral emotional damage that divorce can cause is not just limited to the couple getting the divorce. It also extends to the family’s children, no matter their age. “It…

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Why Is Pre-Marriage Mediation Important?

By Stephanie | April 13, 2022
Mediation written out with pen laying next to it.

While not on the top of your mind when preparing for a marriage, a pre-marital financial agreement is a task that should be added to the marital to-do list. Many…

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Financial Impact of Divorce on Women

By Stephanie | February 9, 2022
Woman figuring out finances.

When you are a woman going through a divorce, you may find that you are financially impacted in ways your male counterpart is not, especially with a court-litigated divorce process.…

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Alimony – How New Tax Rules Can Affect It

By Stephanie | June 6, 2020

Due to the COVID-19 pandemic, federal tax filings have been extended until July 15, 2020. Often couples are blindsided by the tax impact of getting a divorce, but when you…

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Starting a New Year After Divorce

By Stephanie | December 23, 2019

As 2019 wound down, and your divorce was finalized, you may find yourself asking many questions, some of which may be: How can I make the most of 2020 as…

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Collaborative Divorce The Best Way To Divorce In California

By Stephanie | April 10, 2016

You have decided your marriage is not working out. You want to divorce, but your friends have told you horror stories about dragging your divorce through the court system. You…

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