What Do You Tell Your Kids About Your Divorce?
When we speak with parents who are divorcing and have children, we often help them draft a conversation to share with their children to meet their needs and age level. Here are some other thoughts to keep in mind:
Collaborative divorce mediation encourages parents to work together to decide the best way to share the news with their children by keeping the line of communication open. This open communication helps build trust and reassures your children that both parents are still there for them.
Unlike court-litigated divorces, often involving legal battles, collaborative divorce focuses on cooperation versus conflict.
We believe the first step is always making sure that divorce is the only path forward for both of you before sharing the dissolution with your children.
When talking to your children about your divorce, it’s crucial not to place them in the middle or prevent them from openly communicating with your ex. It is very important to show a united front, even during the turmoil that divorce often brings.
Both parents should be present to express their unwavering love for their children, assure them that the divorce is not their fault, and convey happiness for their existence. Reassure them that despite the restructuring, you remain a family.
Share plans resulting from the divorce, highlighting the positive aspects. Explain that the family dynamic is changing and how it will affect them.
Collaborative divorce mediation places children at the forefront. The process encourages parents to make decisions based on the best interests of their kids. This child-centric approach helps craft parenting plans that suit your family’s unique needs and schedules.
Our team of experts can help you and your spouse develop a dialogue that will shield your children from the raw emotions of divorce often brings.
At Peace Talks Mediation Services, our mediation services assist divorced, divorcing, and never-married parents in working together to develop a child-centered custody plan that improves their ability to co-parent.
Note: This information is general in nature and should not be construed as legal/financial/tax/or mental health advice. You should work with your attorney, financial, mental health or tax professional to determine what will work best for your situation.